My gf is having crying after sex and now has trouble getting off all the way, what could be the problem??
Question: Any solutions?
Answers: She must have some emotional issues going on that she is not talking about. Maybe even past sexual abuse. The best thing you can do is to take sex out of it all together for a little while. Instead focus on holding her, cuddling her, loving her platonically. The mind is the number one sex organ, believe it or not, and it is almost impossible to get off when something is on it that strong. Give her time and love, be a good man. Open the door to communication, but don't force it. Go with the flow for now, maybe its even hormonal. Patience for now is the best solution.
Stop having sex with her....
Either that or talk to her, Ask her why shes crying!
It could be that she isn't comfortable having sex, or that having sex is causing her pain. You need to ask her why she is crying, is it painful, are you not enjoying it, did I do something wrong?
Asking is the only way you are going to find out what the problem is, & if she gives you an answer you don't like DON T be mean to her about it.
I had the ame problem whenever I had sex with my ex boyfriend, I think my main problem was just that I wasn't ready for sex. But another part of it was I felt like I wasn't being emotionally fulfilled and alot of the time my boyfriend at the time was rushing everything and it was really selfish sex, he would never hold me afterwards or anything so I always felt cheap and even used sometimes, he wasn't mean to me, he just didn't understand. Maybe something similair is going on...
She could be crying because of pain or emotions, either of which would cause her to have difficulty climaxing.
You will need to talk to her to determine which reason she is crying for, but since you/she didn't mention pain it sounds more likely to be emotions.
Again you will need to talk to her directly to find the reason, but girls often cry after sex because either they are upset about doing it (could be too young and can't handle it or upset with you about something) or because they are very much in love and are overwhelmed with happiness.
you're horrible in bed
Answers: She must have some emotional issues going on that she is not talking about. Maybe even past sexual abuse. The best thing you can do is to take sex out of it all together for a little while. Instead focus on holding her, cuddling her, loving her platonically. The mind is the number one sex organ, believe it or not, and it is almost impossible to get off when something is on it that strong. Give her time and love, be a good man. Open the door to communication, but don't force it. Go with the flow for now, maybe its even hormonal. Patience for now is the best solution.
Stop having sex with her....
Either that or talk to her, Ask her why shes crying!
It could be that she isn't comfortable having sex, or that having sex is causing her pain. You need to ask her why she is crying, is it painful, are you not enjoying it, did I do something wrong?
Asking is the only way you are going to find out what the problem is, & if she gives you an answer you don't like DON T be mean to her about it.
I had the ame problem whenever I had sex with my ex boyfriend, I think my main problem was just that I wasn't ready for sex. But another part of it was I felt like I wasn't being emotionally fulfilled and alot of the time my boyfriend at the time was rushing everything and it was really selfish sex, he would never hold me afterwards or anything so I always felt cheap and even used sometimes, he wasn't mean to me, he just didn't understand. Maybe something similair is going on...
She could be crying because of pain or emotions, either of which would cause her to have difficulty climaxing.
You will need to talk to her to determine which reason she is crying for, but since you/she didn't mention pain it sounds more likely to be emotions.
Again you will need to talk to her directly to find the reason, but girls often cry after sex because either they are upset about doing it (could be too young and can't handle it or upset with you about something) or because they are very much in love and are overwhelmed with happiness.
you're horrible in bed
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